Saturday, April 30, 2016 | By: Unknown

Compatibility Check

  


   Aquarius is ruled by the Planets Uranus and Saturn, while Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. Uranus focuses on iconoclastic ideas and innovative practices. Saturn gives this relationship the drive to act on these ideas and the ability to organize the details that will animate them. Jupiter is about philosophy, teaching, and understanding, and Neptune focuses on spirituality, so Pisces likes to truly understand new and exciting things, such as their partner. Whenever Aquarius comes up with a new idea -- as they so often do -- Pisces is eager to understand it on an intuitive level. This duo creates a complementary relationship deep in intellectual and emotional resources. 

   Aquarius is an Air Sign and Pisces is a Water Sign. This relationship is motivated by thought and feeling, respectively. There is always a lot going on, and this tends to be a very flexible and progressive union. When it's good it's very good, but when it's bad, communication is abysmal. Pisces likes to be where Aquarius's action and intellect stirs, and Aquarius can learn social tolerance and warmth from the demure Pisces. This team works well together. Although they may disagree, their differences of opinion don't last long. Conflicts may arise because of Pisces's need for emotional support and tenderness, and Aquarius's preference for ideas rather than romance. 

   What's the best aspect of an Aquarius-Pisces relationship? It's their mutual interest in cultivating knowledge and accepting modern and cosmopolitan ideas. They are well matched in their enthusiasm, energy, and desire for a sincere, open and honest relationship. Their common interests and reciprocal personalities make theirs a compatible relationship." :)



Source:
https://ph.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070727100256AAVu21y

Define The Relationship

April 28, 2016


To My Aquarian,

           I was in the middle of watching television when a commercial for an upcoming movie was aired. It's caption caught my attention.... " Does a label makes a relationship? ". And so it made me think for a while and I want to share with you my view on this.
I remember you telling me that this 'relationship' isn't just about sex, and I asked "then what else is this about?" you answered back "compassion" which you defined as having the mutual feeling of someone who understands and cares for you (MU or mutual understanding) So safe, showbiz and overrated term. I didn't react violently besides I'm not expecting the topic to be brought up and didn't asked for further explanation.
           I cherish our moments together, the laughter, the stories and the intimate moments together of us are worth to keep and I'm looking forward for more of them. I honestly don't mind (for now) you not telling me that you love/like me because amidst your silence on this matter, I can read well your actions. I'm confident when I say that I'm your most intuitive girl, and I know and I feel that there's this 'thing' that binds and connects our souls and the strong connection that we have is enough or even the best relationship label or status ever made up.

#DTR (define the relationship)
#doesalabelmakesarelationship


* Your Only Fish *   
Saturday, April 16, 2016 | By: Unknown

February 20, 2016


I started the day feeling like the usual, hungry after waking up, grabbed salted bread and coffee and ate while still lying in bed.
Checked my phone to see if he left a message for me. (I was upset last night because I wasn't able to chat with him, offline as usual) And found out that Smart again disconnected my Wi-Fi connection, (800mb allocation in a day is BS!) the good thing was the movie I was trying to download before I went to sleep last night is already available to watch. But then I saw my youngest daughter who's stubborn, weak and sickly due to cough for 5 days now and decided to take care of my child first and drop whatever I'm doing with my phone.
Cooked beef stew for lunch then took a bath before eating. At last I got a message from him saying that he's not feeling well (BTW, he managed to send me a message about past 7 am in the morning saying "good morning") so as someone genuinely concerned, I told him to take meds, rest, increase fluid intake, go home because he's at work, etc. etc. Took a glimpse of my family's Facebook posts about their vacation stay in Boracay and I can't help but to question my dad's favoritism and felt a bit envious (we don't have any sibling rivalries, this is an issue that I have only to myself, I love my family and kids so much)
My sick daughter's fever raised at about 5 pm today and it breaks my heart seeing her weak and can't almost breathe because of cough. Fever eventually went low after doing a steam, giving paracetamol and a short massage. If only I can take all the pain that she's feeling.
We had conversations about immortality, humanity, religion and politics. These are the topics that I don't usually wanna talk about because its about personal belief and opinion, this is what we like about each other, sensible talks. But I decided to cut the topic about humanity and views about religion because of its sensitivity level. (I can no longer discuss it with him because I don't want him to get
offended if ever I would say something not nice about what he believes in)
I must admit, we've been chatting for a few weeks now and I feel interested whenever I'm talking to him (probably because I find him sensible) I really don't have any idea where this can lead us to but I'm hoping that it will be somewhere that we can both be happy.
I decided to create a new blog today about my personal views and goals. Which is where you're at right now. This is a private blog and looking forward to make it available for public reading.
#officiallymissingyou #bestchatmateihavesofar
Friday, April 15, 2016 | By: Unknown

April 15, 2016 @ 5:30pm

I chose to start my day positively. Sent a message as soon as I opened my eyes. That's how I think about you each passing day. The positivity of the day continues as I received a message that I passed an initial assessment (they made me write a portfolio and articles) and I chose to share it first with you. Again, I received no response, and don't get me wrong, I definitely understand that you're working, I just thought that you can somehow be happy for me as well and can manage to answer back even just a simple 'congrats'. Its late in the afternoon and still not receiving any message from you. I have a lot of good news that happened today to share to you and I realized that you can't be as happy as I am. - This is how you're making me feel right now, and I hate myself because most of the time even though I already know what's going on, I still choose to give the benefit of the doubt and convince myself that I shouldn't assume that what I thought you feel is exactly what you're feeling. 
"What the hell Jhen????!! You got more than enough blessings today, if they can't be happy for you then be it! Life has to go on." - me to myself..
Friday, April 8, 2016 | By: Unknown

Shut Up & Dance With Me



Oh don't you dare look back
Just keep your eyes on me.
I said you're holding back,
She said shut up and dance with me!
This woman is my destiny
She said oh oh oh
Shut up and dance with me

We were victims of the night,
The chemical, physical, kryptonite
Helpless to the bass and faded light
Oh we were born to get together,
Born to get together.

She took my arm,
I don't know how it happened.
We took the floor and she said
Oh don't you dare look back
Just keep your eyes on me.
I said you're holding back,
She said shut up and dance with me!
This woman is my destiny
She said oh oh oh
Shut up and dance with me

A backless dress and some beat up sneaks,
My discotheque Juliet teenage dream.
I felt it in my chest as she looked at me.
I knew we were born to be together,
Born to be together

She took my arm,
I don't know how it happened.
We took the floor and she said

Oh don't you dare look back
Just keep your eyes on me.
I said you're holding back,
She said shut up and dance with me!
This woman is my destiny
She said oh oh oh
Shut up and dance with me

Deep in her eyes,
I think I see the future.
I realize this is my last chance.

She took my arm,
I don't know how it happened.
We took the floor and she said

Oh don't you dare look back
Just keep you're eyes on me.
I said your holding back,
She said shut up and dance with me!
This woman is my destiny
She said oh oh oh
Shut up and dance!

Oh don't you dare look back
Just keep your eyes on me.
I said you're holding back,
She said shut up and dance with me!
This woman is my destiny
She said oh oh oh
Shut up and dance with me

Oh oh oh shut up dance with me
Oh oh oh shut up dance with me

Sources: YouTube.com & directlyrics.com

One Call Away



I'm only one call away
I'll be there to save the day
Superman got nothing on me
I'm only one call away

Call me, baby, if you need a friend
I just wanna give you love
C'mon, c'mon, c'mon
Reaching out to you, so take a chance

No matter where you go
You know you're not alone
I'm only one call away
I'll be there to save the day
Superman got nothing on me
I'm only one call away

Come along with me and don't be scared
I just wanna set you free
C'mon, c'mon, c'mon
You and me can make it anywhere
For now, we can stay here for a while
Cause you know, I just wanna see you smile

No matter where you go
You know you're not alone

I'm only one call away
I'll be there to save the day
Superman got nothing on me
I'm only one call away

And when you're weak I'll be strong
I'm gonna keep holding on
Now don't you worry, it won't be long
Darling, and when you feel like hope is gone
Just run into my arms

I'm only one call away
I'll be there to save the day
Superman got nothing on me
I'm only one, I'm only one call away
I'm only one call away
I'll be there to save the day
Superman got nothing on me
I'm only one call away

I'm only one call away


Sources: YouTube.com & directlyrics.com

The 'Detached' Water Boy


Let's get one thing straight from the start. The Aquarius man is no one's water boy, and it would be a mistake to assume so. A liberal and an independent, this man is intent on making the world a better place, for all of mankind. This grandiose approach may seem a little overwhelming when you first meet the man, but he really is a genius when it comes to thoughts and new ideas.
The Aquarius man is also inventive and original, churning out amazing and creative solutions, all meant to change the world or at least his little corner of it. Intellectual, humanitarian, and visionary, a typical Aquarian man is usually a little offbeat, with a touch of the mad scientist about him. If you're prepared for his eccentric little habits, they'll grow on you, and soon you will find yourself helping out with his social experiments.

You can't fence in an Aquarius man – he values his liberty above all else. Give him freedom or give him death! For example, he is an Aquarius who loves travel, his preference will be treks to unusual, exotic, and out-of-the-way destinations, not the humdrum European grand tours or cruise ship vacations that everyone else seems to like so much. He is a trailblazer in every sense of the word, not a follower. Not all Aquarians love travel, however, but his conversational itinerary is unusual and creative. He is so well-versed in the ways of the world that you'd think he had been around.

Nothing about this man is conformist, from his wardrobe to his career choices to his lifestyle. Sometimes obstinate and stubborn, the Water Bearer is a fixed sign, and the Aquarius man will see through anything he starts to its bitter end.

Popular and gregarious, some Aquarius men seem to know everyone. However, this doesn’t necessarily mean that everyone understands him. His feelings are often hidden and his reactions complex. The prodding questions and indecipherable actions are just part of a game of discovery to find out what his friends really think or feel about people and places. Play along, and take his antics with a grain of salt. His findings will be interesting, however. Some Aquarians are more retiring, but they are usually quite intriguing and likeable in a distant kind of way.
Love, like everything else, is a light-hearted game to the Aquarius man. He will approach relationships playfully, unleashing his flirty charm in small, calculated doses.

You won't often hear an Aquarius man say "I love you," at least not in the traditional way or at the appropriate moment. His nonconformist nature will not let him express himself in the usual, conventional way. Flowers, chocolates, dinner and a movie – such normal dating gestures are anathema to him. Instead, be prepared for cloud writing in the sky, surprise trips to a tea picking Indian village, and a cancer research centre named in your honor. He's that kind of man. He loves deeply and sincerely, and would give his life for his other half in an instant. He just doesn't really buy into all the Hallmark sentimentality. While the more retiring types of Aquarians may not be as grandiose in their gift giving, their gifts will always be unconventional and totally unique in some way.

Ruled by Air, the way to the cerebral Aquarian's libido is through his mind. Excite, enchant, and enthrall him with sexy little mind games and wait for the inferno of passion between the sheets that will come later. Experimental and audacious, the more outgoing of Aquarius men are often the first to suggest joining the mile high club, or dare you to skinny dip with them on a moonlit night. Nothing is too provocative or challenging to him in the bedroom, or more often, out of it. The quieter types will nevertheless surprise you at every turn, once you've earned their trust. It can be difficult to get close to these types of Aquarian men, but once you do, you'll be glad you persisted.

A will-o-wisp of a lover, it can be difficult to pin an Aquarius man down to commitment, but once he's found the right woman, he is quite happy to give up being blown where the wind takes him, and settle down. The Aquarius man is attracted to intelligence, so his partner has to be someone who understands his grand designs for life and humanity. He must be assured that his treasured independence isn't under threat; or else he will disappear like a gust of wind. If he is already committed, he is not one to break free quickly, but signs of his discontent will be everywhere.


Absolute reciprocal freedom works best for a partnership with an Aquarius man, which is not to say that every Aquarian seeks an open relationship. The Water Bearer simply wants his own space and freedom of movement, and is quite happy to share a life together with a smart, self-reliant partner who supports his need for autonomy.
A genuinely nice person, the Aquarius man has many friends or acquaintances, but only a small circle of really close ones. Although he's a self-assured and outgoing individual, he does have a tendency to emotionally distance himself from those around him, and this makes the Aquarius man an unpredictable and confusing companion at times.


Despite what may appear to be negative traits for a sound relationship, the Aquarius man is a loyal individual who highly values a true friendship.
To the Aquarius man, a strong mental attraction shares an equal with or greater importance than any physical appeal. Characteristically unemotional, or at least not obviously so, this man needs communication to be intimate in his relationships, but don't count him out as an arduous lover. He is an Aquarius – unpredictable and innovative – so you can expect the bedroom antics to be full of new and exciting pleasures.


Enjoying long talks, moon-lit walks, and holding hands, the Aquarius gentleman is a romantic who's ready to give unconditional love to the right partner.

Source: cafeastrology.com

The Mysterious Fish


Spinning lazy circles around her latest conquest, acquisition, or interest, the Piscean woman is a mysterious, sensual mermaid, her secrets kept secure behind inscrutable dark eyes. She has a vivid mind, and is romantic and spiritual. Like the rivers and seas this sign swims in, Piscean women have deep emotions and strong undertows in their personalities, so watch out for still waters - they often hide a passionate, sensitive nature.
Spiritual, curious, and gentle, the Pisces woman is a true dreamer. She puts a great deal of emphasis on the unseen in her life, whether it be her own intuition, her emotions, or the world of spirituality and religion. This is a woman who is always looking for - and finding - deeper meaning, from the grand scheme of life itself to her own social interactions. She absorbs the events around her, making connections that other people would never even see. She observes patterns in the feelings and actions of other people, and can be quite insightful as to what motivates them.
Pisces is the twelfth and final sign of the zodiac. Ruled by Neptune, the Pisces woman is very intuitive and spiritual. She is sensitive and caring and considers the needs of others. This imaginative and dreamy woman must determine how she will swim through life: with the flow or against it. Pisceans are kind to their friends – and strangers. At any gathering the Pisces woman will either be the shy one in the corner who will listen to people's problems or the outgoing greeter who warmly welcomes each individual. It all depends on her current mood!

The Pisces woman is a daydreamer and can quickly escape the harsh realities of life by slipping into a world where she can be whatever she desires, wherever she wants. Some may think she runs from her problems; others believe she's simply found a creative way of handling them.


Pisces is ruled by dreamy Neptune, and her intuition runs deep. Like the stormy sea, her emotions are complex and changeable. Her challenge is to discern between essential truths of spirit and mere mirage.

PISCES IN LOVE

Love in all its rose-tinted, glorious fantasy, is a Piscean's playground. Romance and dreams take flight in her vivid imagination, swirling with colors and scintillating like light off the waves of the ocean. However, most fish find they have no land legs, so when the honeymoon period ends, this shy sign will engage in love slowly, and carefully.

A Pisces woman in love expects magic and mystery, like the watery, wonderful world of the deep blue. She loves being in love - to her it is a wistful daydream, a flight of fancy. It is a seduction of her senses, and there is nowhere else she would rather be.

Romance and the Pisces woman is like a summer storm, going from the warmth of a welcome rain, through clashes of thunder and lightning, then to the calm tranquility of its passing. She gives everything when it comes to love.

A faithful lover and devoted partner, nothing makes the Pisces woman feel more complete than being in love.

When it comes to attraction, Pisces' secret weapon is evasiveness. There is an aura of mystery around Pisces, in addition to kindness, femininity, and softness. While you can't exactly call her aloof, she maintains a subtle distance that keeps others intrigued. When in an emotional jam or argument, a partnered Pisces is likely to use a "who, me?" approach. Some have brought "playing dumb" to an art form, as they have discovered that this is the best way to avoid answering uncomfortable or awkward questions.


In love, Pisces gives a lot, but not everything. Most important to remember is this: it's a mistake to assume Pisces is weak, but it's also a mistake to assume Pisces is strong. She is both. The message is: don't push her beyond her limits, because although it might appear that she has none, she does draw the line at some point. Avoid taking advantage of her good nature and willingness to make sacrifices. She sees her willingness to forgive and understand as a strength, and you should too. She is fully capable of re-inventing her life, even if that means a life without you. Nevertheless, you should also avoid labeling her as strong as well. She does need help sometimes, and can feel very lonely if the important person in her life leaves her alone to take care of her life when her life is a mess. She could easily interpret this attitude as a lack of concern and love on your part.
Swimming with the currents, most Piscean women are relaxed and laidback, which leads to an easygoing, relaxed relationship. A Piscean woman is pacifist by nature and would rather not rock the boat if there is not much to gain from it. Her relationships are imaginative and sensitive and very emotional, and she will need a lover who can safeguard her and provide a sense of security. She is generous in her relationships, evoking the bounty of the oceans, and can run the risk of giving too much. Her best partner is one who can inspire her, protect her and, when required, ground her fantasies.


Pisceans are extremely sensitive to the needs of others. In a world of takers, they are givers. These compassionate women are here to help others - it's their mission - but please don't take advantage.


Source: cafeastrology.com

Terrified




You by the light is the greatest find
In a world full wrong you're the thing that's right
Finally made it through the lonely to the other side

You said it again, my heart's in motion
Every word feels like a shooting star
I'm at the edge of my emotions

Watching the shadows burning in the dark
And I'm in love and I'm terrified
For the first time in the last time in my only life

This could be good, it's already better than last
And love is worse than knowing you're holding back
I could be all that you needed if you let me try

You said it again my hearts in motion
Every word feels like a shooting start
I'm at the edge of my emotions

Watching the shadows burning in the dark
And I'm in love and I'm terrified
For the first time in the last time in my only

I only said it 'cause I mean it, I only mean 'cause it's true
So don't you doubt what I've been dreaming
'Cause it fills me up and holds me close whenever I'm without you

You said it again my hearts in motion
Every word feels like a shooting star

Watching the shadows burning in the dark
And I'm in love and I'm terrified
For the first time in the last time in my only life


How I Met My Aquarian

"Fell and stumbled couple of times in love. Experiences that should make me stop looking for the right person. But I chose to stop chasing after them and wait patiently until destiny makes a move to lead me closer to my soulmate."


I am at the point of my life when past relationships had thought me to take it easy and focus on my priorities since I had enough with the guys that I once fell in love with. It was also the time when I no longer allow anyone to take advantage of my weaknesses and value friendship as a foundation to a stronger future relationship. In short I already developed the mature views about love and relationship perspectives. 
That's what I was until this guy came into my life. 
I bet a lot of people already experienced the Tinder mobile application. I had it for more than two years (I sometimes uninstall it and install every time I feel bored) before I swiped to the right for this guy. I can remember my thoughts when I saw his profile photo.. "He's a surfer, interesting." Yes, his photo caught my attention since I'm in love with Franco Reyes (Rastafarian artist and a great surfer) plus I have this urge to learn how to swim and surf the waves. And the screen goes, "you're a match with blah-blah.." So I was like, "okay, that's great" to myself and went back to looking into other user's profiles. It was after a few days when I got a message from him. Not the usual "hi" or "hello" but a message that's nothing much to say but demands a response. So I went through his profile again and found out that he's the "surfing guy", and so the conversation started. He's not the type that replies immediately, it took us days before we can establish a sensible chat and I decided to invite him to chat on a different application which he immediately agreed to. 
I started to become interested with him when we already talk about my " weird side" interests in Science and I realized that he's the only guy whom I made such kind of interesting conversations. He's a Math genius (which explains why he's an engineer by profession) and I'm engaged with English and loves reading and writing. Total opposites but surprising that there's a lot of things and views that we share in common. 

Soulmate? Maybe...

"Throughout life you will find one person who is unlike any other, you could talk to his person for hours and hours without getting bored. You could tell them things and they won't judge you. This person is our soulmate, your bestfriend. Don't ever let them go."


I used to think that some people are lucky enough to find their soulmate. I already gave up hoping that someday my soulmate will find me after failed relationships. Until our paths crossed. No words can ever define exactly how I feel when I first came to realize that you're gradually becoming a part of my life. 

Grateful, blessed and at the same time hesitant. The feeling of being afraid to get hurt came back to life after burying it together with memories of the past that I don't wanna remember. Am I going to take the risk and hurt myself again? But God knows how this person made my days even brighter. I never felt so familiar with someone whom I just met. No one has ever gave me the feeling of excitement every time we talk about almost everything. 

And so I decided to forget that I was hurt before and live each day with this person as if I never loved anybody else before. And that decision makes me float into fantasy every second that he's on my mind. Pictures of us together kept on going round and round my subconscious. Never felt so attached. And the happiness that he's causing me will make me stay and enjoy the ride.